I split up with my bf last month, had been 2gether 7 yrs but wasnt plain sailing. He asked me 2 marry him 2 yrs ago but refused 2 set a date 4 wedding or talk bout it. When I confronted him bout him 6 months ago he said he asked me cos he thought he would want 2 marry me in the future. He then confessed to an affair he'd had 3 years ago, said he felt guilty and thats why he hadnt been ready 2 marry me. On hearing that i broke off the engagement. But got back with him few months later. It was a disaster and we agree we're not right 4 each other so we split up again last month. We have lived together 4 the last 6 yrs, bought a house last yr so we own an equal share. When we broke up 6 months ago he agreed a price 4 me 2 buy out his share of the house. This time he wont accept the offer and is asking 4 more £ as 'compensation'. He refuses 2 appoint solicitor, my solicitor says it will go 2 court as he wont c solicitor. Its gonna take months he's still living here, just want him out. help
Answer by Sandy Ego
do u have a lawyer? u need to get 1
Answer by chrischrisse
get a lawyer ...and get his ass out!
Answer by my2cents793
Live and learn. Money changes everything. Get a lawyer.
Answer by Bart M
Why should he leave? Just because you're "unhappy". You have no grounds to ship him out.
Answer by Charli
You need to move all of his stuff out of your place one day while hes is out and change the locks. You also need to find a lawyer. In the future, make sure you own your house, even if you live with some one else. That way if you break up, there is no question as to who gets the house.
Answer by Mrs. Robinson
well in the us, you cant get him out. he has equal share until its settled. i dont know how it is there, youll have to ask your solicitor
Answer by saraie56
Is he violent? Do you fear for your safety/life? you might be able to have a restraining order set up against him in force until the matter is settled in court. Then he would have to leave the premises until then. Otherwise the laws are on his side. You'll have to be patient and pray for a speedy & amicably fair end in court. Check w/yr solicitor.
Answer by Jai
The truth is, in this situation there's no easy out or your lawyer would have given it to you.
The easiest solution is for YOU to move out.
However, you should talk with your lawyer about this, as "possession is 9/10ths of the law."
You could also rent your part of the house out to someone (perhaps a big brother figure who will be appropriate antagonistic:-)
Answer by redd
I hope you got that fist amount in writing, if not get a loan that can cover what he want, if not ask him to buy you out and then move on. Good luck... I had the same problem
Answer by TM
If you both share the house, why must it be him to move out? If you really don't want to see him, you can move out too. Rent a flat until the court decides a solution. Either you stay with him & be miserable, or you move out and be happy.
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