I have a distressing marital issue that I need some help with.

Not long after meeting my Husband he was transferred to the states

We carried on our relationship via daily phone calls, text messages and emails.

We got married a couple months later and i began the process of moving to America.

Not long after he went back to America (before i moved there completely) we started to argue on the phone.

I flew out to America to make sure he was OK and if there was any reason for this abrupt change of behaviour.

I felt like it was a lost cause, as he seemed to be telling me it was over, before it had even started.

Due to the impending move I had sold my household items at a fraction of their original cost (those I did not sell I gave away), rented out my home and my three grown-up daughters moved into their own flat.

My Marriage meant that I lost my money entitlement from my first divorce and because my daughters have their own place I no longer receive house keeping from them. This ultimately means that I am unable to live in my own house or rent a house for my and my young son.

I had to move in with my parents in the 2nd week of December, my son sleeps in the spare room and I sleep on the sofa

I sought legal advice in the UK, and my Solicitor wrote to him several times with no reply. The last time she informed him that I was going for Judicial Separation.


My Solicitor has advised me to seek legal advice from a Lawyer in America

As I said I have nothing and the legal help I receive here is covered by legal aid.

I am left totally devastated and heart broken that the man I fell in love with and who I trusted could do this to someone he said he loved so very much.

Any help or advice you could provide me would be invaluable.

Answer by Manymanyanimals
You can do your divorce yourself if you and your husband have no children together. Contact Legal Aid and tell them about your situation. They will give you the legal paper work and instructions on how to do this. Other than that all I can say is that I'm sorry your marriage didn't work out for you.

Answer by tony_le12
try to contact with him. If he agree to divorced.
if not it is going to be a big fight. since you two in different country.
Most of divorced don't go with out a fight and a big cost.

by the us tradition you can file paper and served to him. he have his right to refuse to sign.

because legally you two are married, so he can interfering you private life and you can do the same to him.



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