Ok this is a sick act of a mother!! Well it sure hurts!!
three times now i have been to court for access rights and have been granted them three times.. i have parental responsibility granted by judge..
Again i am needing solicitors and have had correspondence with them since January, as normal they are slow but are in the process of getting a court date..
I am paying maintenance of £40 a week and when i used to have contact more regular i make the round trip of 160 miles to collect/return my daughter each week.. i pay the costs of this plus i purchase things my daughter needs for school etc.
i was paying 360 per month before but could'nt afford to live and pay bills so i went unemployed for a couple of months to see what to do next--
The mother for three and a half years now has been nothing but a decietful liar, which i can prove in court but they take no notice of this and just make new contact arrangements.
Obviously im not a bad person.
can Anyone help?
my daughter is 6 now, just missed her birthday as i cannot contact her mother - 5 different mobile numbers within 14 months .. i sent a card - flowers & teddie to my daughter - recorded delivery... it was signed for.
I guess my daughter never knew who it was from or possibly never even see the delivery!!
I will not just turn up at the address i normally collect my daughter from as i feel this would be used against me, social services don't care and my daughters school cannot help which is expected.. even to know if she is well and happy would be nice!!!!
i am the biological father - on the birth certificate & my daughter has my name...
In court the judge don't care why the relationship ended - even though i can prove my daughters mother is a liar and was in a second relationship for about 7 months before i found out!!
On this occasion the mother is saying it's my daughter that don't want to see me.. Problem is everyone that knows my daughter & me knows this is a lie!
Answer by takntyme4u
For a 100 bucks I'll shoot your ex ... problem solved
Answer by bluez
I don't really have any advice for you..it seems you've already done all I would suggest. But, I feel for you. My fiance has a son that we want custody of because the mother is unfit at parenting, but it will be he** to get the courts to see that. I send my best wishes to you and I hope you can get in touch with your daughter soon and get her away from her mother (legally, of course). Good luck!
Answer by robertonduty
In America its called "Interference" and that by itself is a crime.
And your right... the court doesn't care why you are divorced and since you know that... drop it and pursue the visitation interference charges... as long as you are meeting your legal support obligations.
Answer by curious
i feel u. i feel ur angriness. i feel ur disgust. i feel ur sorrow.
there isnt much u can do now. i agree a lot about ur opinion on the matter and i too am disgusted to even know this has happened. im so sorry. try to bring it up again. email. send more letters. phone call? IM. shes ur daughter too and i personally think u have every right to go see her and love her as much as u can. i really wish u could prove this in court IF they would listen, but if these moron ppl wont listen then their jus retards nd i dont have much else to say. i noe, if it was possible, i would seriously slap the mom across her face nd get rid of her without gettin in trouble. but of course thats impossible. im soo sorry. i wish there was something else i could do other than tell u all this. it may make u feel better to read ur answers and feel their support for u, but its just not the same when u really cant take legal action and prove something thats REALLY important.
seriously, that 'mother' needs to get a life
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